In our previous article on how do friendship ends, we discussed about some aspects which turns our friendship to its end. Now we know the reasons why friendship ends. How do we change their course and make them last?.
The solution for this depends on number of reasons on their end!. Article how fo friendship ends we said that friend may change when they move to a new place! what can we do for that
Communicate with your friend and behonest with each other and explain friends how this situation makes you feel.
Spend time with your friends till he leave to new place. try to make time to visit your old friends circle with them.
Exchange the address and disscuss about keeping touch in contacts. Find ways to establish the contacts. Being in internet you can have Email, Chats, Phone calls and if possible visiting eachother between regular intervals.
In my experiences I have my friends faraway from my place but we all have regular contacts through chats,emails, Phonecalls. By this way the friendship will stay alive even though you are seperated by distances.
These points is for every friends who are getting seperated by distances for various reasons like Higher education, jobs etc. It needs time to get used to, Whe we seperate by distance we feel emotionally dry and sad. it takes days, weeks or months to get used to it. when move happens be honest with each other and allow time for the move to feel comfortable and to know how life will change only because of this move. WHo knows we both may get another new friendship in the places and we may form a good friendship with all.If the friendship is important, work to adjust to the situation and eventually it'll seem as normal as everything else in life. Adjusting ourselves according to situation will bring lots of new adventures in friendship. Adjusting is a must in friendship.
What if there is a problem betwwn you and your friend. There is two ways to solve a problem in this world. Friendship also has two ways to solve the problems. One, let it go on its way. All of us seen two kids fights and hate each other. But that fight never withstand not even for ten minutes. After ten minutes they put each others hand in others shoulder, behave as if nothing happened between thme. A true friendship is also of that kind only. In friendship there must be small problems orelse that friendship will not be tasty. Saying this doesn't mean that we must fight with our friends. The fights must be like a dew drops in mornings. when sun comes out the dew drops will disappear. friendly fights must be like that. Two, is friendship is important for you, Then you can't you forget the conflict and problems. Make a move first from your side and you will witness the positive reply from your friend side also.He may have waited for your call or he may also thinking like you, What happens if your friend rejects the call!. In friendship there must not be any place for Ego.
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